Business + Mission Where the Streets Have No Names
Jim Henderson + Jim Hancock guide business and missional leaders through spaces where folks come to engage each other without being obliged to agree.
They’re convinced that anyone with a hunger for rescuing and strengthening human connections … about identifying and working for the common good, at a minimum … can set the table for others who want that too.
See more of their work at 3Practices.com and HumaneResources.me.
JIM
HENDERSON
Jim Henderson’s innovative work in crossing the difference divide has been reported by The Wall Street Journal, and USA Today, and featured on This American Life with Ira Glass. Jim is a serial entrepreneur, a producer of films and live events, an organizational leadership coach, and the author of eight books. He makes his home in Seattle, Washington.
JIM
HANCOCK
Jim Hancock has a long history of designing content and delivering experience-based learning for organizations and institutions working on all sorts of interesting things. He’s authored and co-authored a dozen books and well north of 300 short movies (and a couple of pretty long ones). He lives and works in Seattle, Washington.
3PRACTICES
Late one night in a Central-California hotel, a traveling salesman invited us to join him for a beer.
“Where you from?” he asked.
“Pacific northwest,” we said.
“So … Democrats, then,” he replied. Satisfied he’d gathered, in a single question, all the evidence he needed to size us up as ideological opponents, he changed the subject to sports.
This is the spirit of the age, nicely summed up by The Onion headline:
“STEREOTYPES ARE A REAL TIME-SAVER”
Of course they are. Because, honestly, who has the time, let alone the need for real conversations when simpleminded stereotypes will do?
Who indeed….
The 3Practices emerged as a feat of reverse-engineering. Over decades, we observed, and eventually described and named the habits of people who cross the difference divide — repeatedly and on purpose. Not only do these people have time for real conversations, they’ve decided they don’t have time anymore for conversations that aren’t real.
In 2017, we started leading 3Practice Circles, first in Seattle, then across the country, in order to prove that it’s possible to have substantive, civil conversations with ideological opponents.
We lead Open 3Practice Circles where anyone is welcome, we lead Hosted 3Practice Circles where folks can introduce the 3Practices to people in their spheres of influence, and we lead Private 3Practice Circles for businesses, civic groups, religious organizations, schools, and universities.
We train others to lead 3Practice Circles, too, because we can’t be everywhere … nor do we need to be. When people see what goes on in a 3Practice Circle, some of them think, I could learn to do that. Yes, they could … and can … and do.
3Practice Zoom Circles
A space to pursue clarity + understanding with people who have good reasons to disagree
Click here for upcoming 3Practice Zoom Circles + other 3Practices events
Meanwhile, here’s a taste — the 3Practice Zoom Circle exploring white privilege from June 12: Waking Up White in America.
3Practice Zoom Circle . Waking Up White in America
Are there unearned privileges that come with waking up white in America?
3PRACTICES EXPLAINER
3PRACTICES BOOK
3Practices
for
Crossing
the
Difference Divide
3Practices for Crossing the Difference Divide — in paperback and digital/tablet editions — is for people who are sad, angry, and apprehensive about important relationships being sucked into the vortex of the difference divide. It’s a book for people who aren’t ready to accept this as our new normal — where we have no choice but to write off relationships that mean a great deal to us.
The 3Practices are a map across the difference divide.
— Practice One: I’ll be Unusually Interested in others
— Practice Two: I’ll stay in the room with difference
— Practice Three: I’ll stop comparing my best with your worst.
This book shows how you can:
1. Create a safe space for learning the 3Practices.
2. Teach a simple skill people can take home and apply immediately.
THE NO JOKE PROJECT
A Movie . A Book . A Tour
When we met the rabbi, the imam, and the evangelical preacher in Peoria, Illinois, we had only the faintest inkling of where it might all lead…
