If you only have time to read one thing today (besides this blog), go here and read David Brooks talking about why he misses Obama.
Brooks’ book The Road to Character lists 15 keys at its conclusion. #3 & 4 are:
- Pride is the central vice
- Humility is the central virtue.
Take the current leaders in the Presidential primaries and you’ll see this.
Bernie first, I’ll call him dynamite pride: the unfiltered belief that since the system sucks, we should blow it up. Literally, “anything is better than this.”
Turning to Trump, I’ll call his nostalgia pride: the unexamined belief that the ‘good ole days’ are where we have to get back to – no matter what. “Making America great again” can mean so many things and thus doesn’t mean anything.
In my church these two prides show themselves demographically.
- The olderlies (my daughter’s word when she was 4) suffer from nostalgia pride. They want to make this church great again and there’s no hesitation (a la Trump) to harken back to a past memory or time when it was good.
- The younger crowd who, while committed to church (“I’m here aren’t I?”) want to blow it up – Bernie style. Invoking “this is stupid” they can’t understand why we keep doing it this way.
At 46, I’ve been a charter member of both of these camps – it just depends on when.
Here’s the problem: at root they both suffer from that central vice – pride. Dynamite can’t hear nostalgia because dynamite only sees one solution – destruction. Nostalgia can’t hear dynamite because it’s only view of a better church is historical.
If we truly want to follow that Crazy Carpenter, we have to do three things (revolutionary in their own right):
- Stop comparing our best to the other’s worst. Is that my brother or sister in this crazy family or is that an idiot who doesn’t get it? Family? Oh, I need to listen to you. Idiot? I have to shout you down.
- Stay in the room with difference. Am I going to learn something from you? Yes, but only if you’re different and I stay – and shut up – long enough.
- Trust the slow work of God.
Bernie dynamiters are right in that some things really need to change. Trump nostalgics are right in that there’s 2000 years of hard-won Jesus history that shouldn’t be thrown out. But both are wrong in what they deny. Both lack the essential humility to say, “Not my will but yours be done.” I’m more convinced than ever that the Spirit animates our work and our lives. But we have to grow up – every day. If we’re not willing to grow, why are we following that Crazy Carpenter? Why does it matter?